Whether or not this is technically cheating isn’t the most important thing, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. What matters is how you feel about it
My husband has a strong urge for sex. I have been sexually unavailable to him because I was pregnant back-to-back with two kids after our marriage. He used to watch pornography frequently to cope with his desires. But recently I have seen that he has started paying escorts for live video sessions.
When I asked him about it, he said ‘what’s the difference between paid private video session and unpaid porn videos?’. He says there’s no difference as he is not having any physical relationship with escorts.
