This all happened a while ago. I think you need to ask yourself who you’re trying to make feel better – yourself or her
My friend and I met at school. I moved away but we kept in touch. After she had a baby, I went to visit without my husband. We all had too much wine, and she went to bed. I stayed chatting with her husband, who had also been at school with us. But as I went to leave, he tried to kiss me. I pushed him away but he kept coming towards me. I told him to stop but he didn’t. So I ran out of the house.
I told my husband. He was aghast and thought I should tell her. I felt I’d be potentially breaking up a young family. I was also unsure if she’d believe me. I was notorious in our social circle for sleeping around as a teen. My husband made it clear he never wanted to see her husband again. I didn’t feel confident enough to meet up with them both. And so I left it. I didn’t say a thing but kept my distance.
