Your boyfriend’s uncertainty is legitimate, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith, but you must be proactive about something this important
My boyfriend isn’t sure if he wants children (he says he’s currently at a 70% split to not wanting them) and I definitely do. I love him so much and we have a great relationship and I was single for many years previously. We haven’t been going out for that long (just over a year) and we have both just turned 30. I don’t want to break up but I equally don’t want to miss my chance of having kids.
I have also asked him about it a few times, including on the second date, and first he said he was interested, then that he wanted to adopt, and now he’s not sure. He knows it’s really important to me. Please can you help?
